Pastor Sam Adeyemi: 12 Tips To Ensure The Success Of Your Marriage Part 1

This Tips are copied from the official website of Pastor Sam Adeyemi, Enjoy your self as you explore through the tips to ensure a successful marital life.
1. Have a Plan
Marriage is a lifetime commitment. It requires thoughtful planning. Take time out to review your plans for your family’s future. Set goals. Start planning your future today!

2. Quality time
Couples need to take time out to enjoy each other’s company. Make this
a regular or twice a month, fixed night every month. Make sure this date is “unmovable” and is a priority above all else. Start today!

 

3. Quickly Forgive
Forgiveness is one of the foundations to building successful marriage. There will be times when your mate makes mistakes, causes hurt feelings and even frustration (and you will do the same!). JUST FORGIVE! Let go and let God!

Remember 1 Peter 3:7 says, “Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered.”

4. Listen!
This is for us Men mostly. We have a hard time listening to our partners sometimes. Make it a priority in your Marriage to not just hear your partner, but listen to what your partner is saying in an effort to understand. If you can listen you can communicate better. Listening to the needs of your partner will always keep communication open and will set the stage to help you both endure difficult times.
Be Sensitive and proactive
One of the results that married couples achieve with greater intimacy is greater sensitivity to one another’s needs. Being sensitive and tuned into your partner helps to make you proactive about fulfilling their needs, which then increases intimacy. It’s a cyclical effect that yields tremendous results!

5. Be Sensitive and proactive
One of the results that married couples achieve with greater intimacy is greater sensitivity to one another’s needs. Being sensitive and tuned into your partner helps to make you proactive about fulfilling their needs, which then increases intimacy. It’s a cyclical effect that yields tremendous results!

6. Don’t Fall Into The “For Granted Effect”
Years of being in holy matrimony can sometimes make us comfortable. Still, it’s important to never take your partner for granted. Even though you have both promised to remain with one another for better or for worse, it’s necessary to understand that their presence is not guaranteed. Be respectful to one another both privately and publicly, cherish your partner and treat them well every day.

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The Tips written by Pastor Sam Adeyemi, Compiled by GOSPEKIN